Trials

As a kid, I had everything planned

Who I want to be..

Where I want to be..

What I'll be doing..

It was so easy putting everything in place

All I could think of was the future 

And everyday drew me closer to this future..

It got to a stage that it seemed like someone edited my plans..lol

I tried editing..

Edited.. Edited.. Edited..

And finally had to format and start from the beginning..

Relationships at this stage either has to be good or bad

There's no standing between good or bad..

Most people I know that are in relationships are either being real or acting..

Those who are being real are tagged "in a good relationship"

"In a good relationship" simply means that they know each other so well.. they don't need to paint pictures to look like the perfect couple they already are.. This doesn't mean that they don't have quarrels or misunderstand each other sometimes.. Those quarrels help make them stronger in a special way.. they fight and make up which strengthens their relationship..

On the other hand the "bad" 

"In a bad relationship" it's either the girl is being used by the guy or the other way round..

They get along sometimes but hardly..

Knowing fully well that nothing good will come out of the relationship..

Black and blue is always the colour of the day..

Getting beat up like it's the only way to stay alive..

Not listening to advice from friends but crawling back to them with tears..

Lying to yourself by saying "he loves me".. 

It's true that staying single lets you breathe fresh air..

Not thinking of

"Where he could be" 

"What he could be doing"

Or just randomly bothering bout someone who is probably taking a nap..

But at some point we just realise that it's time to get serious..

I really thank God for the stage I am in right now..

I've come to realise that working hard really pays..

Setting standards and objectives ahead of time..

Learning from mistakes..

Helping others in ways you can..
Never look down on yourself!

Things will definitely fall in place ☺☺☺